Self Love: Comparison is a Thief

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I think the biggest transformation anyone can make for themselves; is acceptance of who they are. 

Not who they're not, who they think they should be, who their partner or employer or family want them to be. Just be you.
It's that simple, and that cliche. However it's a massive struggle for a lot of people. All it takes is one damaging situation or comment to completely ninja mind fuck you.
Suddenly you're questioning everything, comparing yourself to others. Weighing your value as a person based on these comparisons.
It's all bullshit.

Comparison steals from beautiful moments.

Everyone is different. There is no right or wrong way.
One persons beauty or success - is not the absence of your own!
You are perfect and whole, and complete as you are. Right in this moment.
You are everything.
 

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